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Hi! This is a good subject!! Well of course we always see different opinions about things. People are always going to see things differently than one another. But you know what? That’s ok.

I am one person that wants to choose love no matter what. I may have some feelings of rejection, and I may get my little feelings hurt, but the bottom line I choose to love, no matter what.

The way someone feels about a certain issue is not who they really are. And if we can just stay away from certain issues there can be love. I’ve had to make a major effort to do this, and the other person has to be willing to do it too. Both parties can not be someone that has to be right.

I don’t have to be right. I don’t have to prove my point. I just live and love and let God take care of the rest. Wow if we let Him be our vindicator He is very capable of doing what He wants to do. It’s not about me, it’s about what He wants.

Being able to let things go comes from being cleaned up on the inside, from having a pure heart. From not having an agenda!! I’m definitely not saying I’m perfect at it, just saying that after all the feelings I have and getting it out, the final result I come to is love.

Love really does never fail. There are some that you can’t be around much. Some are literally motivated to take you down. I’m not talking about working it out with them. Remember, I said both parties have to be willing. If someone is not willing, fine, no need to take up much of my time, I will love you if you let me, if not, not my responsibility!! Woo hoo!! Isn’t that fun and freeing??

I will always keep the door open to someone changing their mind. No walls up!! Yep, I’m willing to try to work thinks out, if I see a bunch of games, sorry, not my responsibility. I only learned that from being entangled in many games of manipulation, and control. These things are such a distraction in your life that keep you from doing what you really need to be doing.

You think you have anyone being like that in your life? Their behavior is trying to control and manipulate you? They have some issues going on inside. If they are not willing to admit that and change, it is not your responsibility.

I have a pretty sensative personality so if someone keeps being like that with me I have to literally detach (emotionally) when I am around them. It’s not much fun being in a relationship like that. It’s a lot of work. It can start wearing you down.

I choose love❤

I choose life❤

I choose to be me, without distractions❤

See you soon❤

 

Hi, just want to mention transition. Just heard someone talking about transition and they said something that I have seen to be true. When you are leaving one thing, transitioning to another, whether it be relationships, job, church…the way you leave one, is the way you enter the next. So if you leave in turmoil, you will take that turmoil on with you to the next.

We never get free from something until we learn the lesson we are supposed to learn. The best thing to do, is surrender to the lesson, and be open to what you are supposed to learn. If we don’t, it’s for sure going to pop up again!!

That may not be exactly what you wanted to hear today but I’ve actually seen it happen many times. We just always have to come to forgiveness about things. If we open up our hearts and forgive, and learn our lessons, then God actually promotes us into things that we could try to do in our own strength only to find out we couldn’t.

Its about HIM directing our path!! It’s about HIS will and what HE wants to see happen. It’s about humbling ourselves and letting HIM lift us up, in due time.

It’s so not about us!! When HE wills something, there is so much power behind doing it. We just rest and have peace in HIS plan.

If you are going through transition, pay attention to the things you have left behind. How have you honored others, have you done unto others the way you would have them do unto you? Even if they were wrong? Yikes! Sort of convicting, isn’t it??

It’s so true, start loving and honoring everyone around you and it will take you farther that you could ever even imagine!!

Have an awesome, blessed day!! Learn new things today!! Be transformed today!! Let me know if you need prayer or help!!

Love you❤

Behind you❤

I want you to get it!!❤

Soon!!❤👍🏼

I’m just thinking this morning about demons. Sorry got right to the point!! Ha ha! I have learned that this is not always a big, spooky thing like the exorcist tries to portray. It can be like that, but it can also be a more quiet, suttle thing that is holding us back.

There are many ways to get rid of these things. Sometimes they actually leave by you changing your life patterns and they go. There are various ways they go. They can go through prayer, through worship, I have even seen them leave in 12 step recovery meetings and even through love and support from other people.

My opinion, though, is that the only thing that can keep them really gone is Jesus. Jesus is supernatural and changes your heart. After they are gone, you have to replace them with good and live a different life or they can come back. Seriously, this is very simple.

I think the father of lies, our enemy Satan, who comes to kill, steal, and destroy…. likes us to believe they aren’t real or that was something people dealt with way back when, but we can all have them. Trauma can cause them, unforgiveness can cause them.

They are just liars though! They try to convince us of things. When the lies are exposed and we see the truth about things, they leave us alone!! They can’t stay in the presence of God!!

Wow it’s Valentine’s Day and I’m talking about such things. But love really does conquer it all!! It’s a heart issue!! When our heart changes, we change!! That is exciting to know!!

Happy Valentine’s Day!! If you don’t feel it from anyone else… I love you!! Jesus loves you! God loves you! Heaven rejoiced the day you were born! You’re not a mistake!! You have a purpose!! You are loved!!

You are HIS Valentine❤

You are HIS princess❤

You are HIS bride❤

You have purpose❤

See you soon❤

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Well, shifted some things around, made a few changes and ready to go. How many know that change is good? If I feel things starting to stagnate it is time for a freshness and SHIFT. It almost feels like a closing in feeling, can’t stand that feeling.

Some people may not even notice that feeling but I do. It’s like you feel like you are trying to manufacture things instead of it flowing smoothly. I guess it comes for people that are trying to create things. I have to be sure my words are not coming from me, that they are coming from heaven..if it comes from me it can get tainted and turn people off.

So, life is so good, busy, fun and exciting! Tomorrow Marty and I get to speak somewhere, On Valentine’s Day!! That is so fun and such a turn around from where my life used to be and could have still been if God hadn’t rescued me!! He’s so good!

I think what I like to do is to show people that Christians can just be normal folks. We don’t have to be loony tunes trying to cram things down people’s throats or trying to always convince people of things. We just live it, enjoy life, and love people. Very simple!

We are all not that much different from each other, really. We don’t have to all be the same! We don’t have to be the Holy Spirit for other folks. We just have to keep looking in the mirror at ourselves and working on ourselves! That is a full time job for most of us so we don’t need to be trying to fix someone else’s problems all the time!

If we really believe in God and trust Him then we can let things go into His hands and know it’s taken care of. I know I’m making that sound so easy but if you pursue freedom with everything you’ve got it just automatically happens.

Im not trying to say nothing happens to me that’s bad, as I’m typing just found out my credit card hacked and internet shut down because that’s how payment is made, but I just keep on trucking and keep on typing!! Right? Yep just keep on keeping on!! Expect opposition, don’t let it stop you! Expect distractions, don’t let them stop you!

We just have to figure out what our priorities are in life!! Plow toward them not getting distracted by other things. Let God deal with the other things! It’s not all ours to deal with!!

Hope y’all have a fabulous day plowing through “stuff” !! It’s really all ok and there is a solution! Don’t get in self pity! Don’t let it get to you!!

Keep on keeping on!!

Better times around the corner!!

Talk more soon!❤👍🏼